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Inside Youth Sports
Sports provide your child with many benefits including physical exercise, fun, confidence and a
sense of community. And for many children, sports are the most natural and joyful way of
expressing grace and excellence in their young lives.
With these benefits in mind, and hoping to provide the best opportunities for your child, you and
other parents dutifully sign up your young children for the local youth program of choice.
Surely this is the single best way for children to pursue their interest in sports, develop their
abilities, and get the most out of the experience. But is it?
Benefits of Organized Sports
Organized sports, administered by adults, offer one path for a child to learn and appreciate sports.
Skill clinics and traditional developmental youth leagues ideally enable knowledgeable
coaches to teach children specific sports skills and team play along with sportsmanship and life
lessons. Proper instruction, balanced with competition suited to the age group and skill
level, can provide the program's youth participants with a great experience. In addition,
activities are supervised, helping to ensure the safety of your child.
Don't make the mistake, however, of believing that organized sports by themselves will provide
your child with the best overall sports experience. Organized sports are only one part of the
equation.
Rich Beginnings
In my youth (and possibly yours) playing and learning sports was a multi-faceted developmental
experience. It began with my Dad introducing me to sports by playing catch and providing
some basic instruction. Too young to play in a youth league back then, I can also recall my
Dad occasionally taking me to a local baseball field on a warm summer evening to watch a Little
League baseball game. Mostly, I remember the stop afterwards for an ice cream
cone. In elementary school, a gym teacher began our basic instruction in a variety of
games and modified sports. Games of kickball during gym class and recesses provided a
fun introduction to team sports. At seven or eight, I played in my first neighborhood pickup
baseball and football games. Being one of the youngest, I only hoped to get an occasional
chance to catch the ball and take some swings at the plate. I was thankful for the
opportunity to play with older boys and be part of the neighborhood group. As I grew and
became a more accomplished athlete, my role increased--and this success only fueled my
enjoyment and interest in sports.
Learning to Become Self-Reliant
But it's essential to understand that these neighborhood games were much more than just playing
sports. They were also about learning how to interact with other children--without the help
of parents or other adults. We learned how to recruit neighborhood kids, organize the
game, deal with arguments, balance our individual competitive instincts against the needs of
others in the group, and otherwise manage the game so that everyone wanted (or at least
continued) to play. Often, it was a balancing act to keep everyone satisfied and the game
going. Depending on who was playing and our mood, the games emphasized either
relaxed fun or more serious competition. But most importantly, we controlled our
experience--we learned to become more self-reliant.
A Complementary Role in Years Past
For us, the organized sports activities of our youth were separate, complementary experiences
that helped fill our weekday evenings and Saturday mornings. In some ways, organized
sports represented the formal test of our daily fun and games. We accepted that these
youth leagues were run by parents, more structured, and usually more competitive. It was
still an exciting, satisfying experience--run by caring coaches who balanced competition, learning
and fun. That's not to say there weren't moments of stress, fear, and boredom--or the
occasional poor coaching. In my first year of football, I was the youngest (and
lightest). Trying to tackle bigger boys was a scary experience. While playing youth
baseball, I also recall each year facing a pitcher who had an unbelievable fastball, but who also
was very wild. We all were fearful of that pitcher, but knew that if we took enough pitches
there was a good chance that he would walk us (but hopefully not hit us).
So what were the crucial elements comprising my youth sports experience? They were
involved parents, gym teachers, neighborhood pickup games that provided an opportunity for
unstructured, self-organized play--and organized sports. The latter was only a part of the
whole.
Organized Sports Today
But it's a new world--and some of the changes are clearly ones for the better. Title Nine, for
example, has opened the world of sports to millions of young girls. Other changes include
more two-paycheck families, more single parents, 24-hour news that sensitizes us to the potential
dangers our children face on their own, and an expanded universe of non-sports activities
available to a child. Unlike Title Nine, these changes are more mixed in their benefits and
drawbacks. But one truth is certain, parents now lead lives filled to the brim with personal
and family activities.
In a generation of busy parents, it's no surprise that organized sports have now taken on a much
larger role. Scheduled, highly structured, and safe, organized sports more easily fit into
today's lifestyle. Why not expect that organized sports can be the beginning and end of
your child's sports experience?
Unfortunately, placing these heavy expectations on an organized youth sports program is bound to
result in failure of one kind or another. A limited number of volunteer coaches with varying
degrees of expertise, multiple age groups and skill levels bunched together into single leagues,
and different attitudes regarding how to balance fun and competition, all make it difficult to produce
a program that fully satisfies the needs of every participant. As a result, complaints arise
that traditional youth sports programs are too competitive, do not provide equal playing time, and
fail to give younger beginners and less-skilled children the best opportunity to learn and have fun.
A Better, More Balanced Approach
So how do we provide the best sports experience for our youth in today's world? I would
suggest that parents embrace a principle embodied in our past--balancing participation in
organized sports with the other developmental opportunities that include direct parental
involvement and separate, self-directed play by the children themselves. Don't simply
outsource your child's sports education to an organized youth sports program.
Even in a more complex changing world, you still control your choices. Spend some time
playing catch with your child, place limits on "electronics" time, let go a little (take a chance like
your parents did with you) and send your child outside to play with other neighborhood
children. City, suburb, and rural neighborhoods all present different safety issues and
potential risks. Only you can determine how much risk you are willing to assume. But ask
yourself, "Is your neighborhood really any more unsafe than the one you grew up in--or has our
omnipresent 24-hour news cycle simply sensitized our society to the potential dangers?"
If you are not comfortable with unsupervised play, or your work schedule keeps you and your child
away from home during the day, then try to find a facility where your child can play with others in a
self-directed setting. For example, it's not unusual in the afternoon at the local YMCA to
see younger children involved in either a fun two-on-two pickup basketball game or a more
competitive full court game. The YMCA provides a safe, semi-supervised environment that
still provides children an opportunity to do their own thing.
And finally, take an active interest in your child's organized youth sports experience. Find
the local programs that offer the best blend of fun, learning, and competition that fits your child.
Be supportive. But also strive for a healthy balance between parental involvement
and providing your child with the freedom to explore sports on his or her own. Don't believe
that organized youth sports programs are the entire answer or that you are a poor parent for not
placing your child in every available program. You may find that everyone in the family
benefits from less emphasis on organized sports.
(c) Copyright 2009 - Jeffrey S. Rhoads. All Rights Reserved Worldwide.
******** Jeffrey Rhoads has coached youth sports for over 25 years. He has worked with all levels
of young players--including both absolute beginners with limited athleticism and more talented
athletes who went on to success in high school and college. Mining both his experience as a youth
coach and his own joyful, sports-filled youth, his writings provide valuable guidance for parents,
coaches and players on how to create a great youth sports experience. Mr. Rhoads also designs
and develops sports software.
For more articles on how to create a great youth sports experience, please visit Inside Youth
Sports at: http://www.insideyouthsports.org
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